Study: Remote working benefits fathers while childless men miss sense of community

[const_void@lemmy.ml]

Same. I’ve always hated office culture and don’t miss it one bit.

[thatkomputerkat@lemmy.world]

As a childless man, fuck no I don’t.

[fourwaveforms@lemm.ee]

I'm a childless man and FUCK that, the office isn't my social scene. I don't care to drive in there just to talk to the same people in person. ZERO point in doing that. We have meetings electronically and that's more than enough.

[bradleyuffner@lemmy.world]

As a childless man, they will have to pry my work from home out of my cold, lots of free time having hands.

[fyzzlefry@retrolemmy.com]

They're all jerks anyways

[gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works]

Mmmm I am a childless man, and I live by myself, and I am 100% cool with that, and feel fine. But to be fair, I’ve got a pretty good circle of friends, and a really strong core friend group.

[leftzero@lemmynsfw.com]

No we don't. Work is work, not fucking community.

[last_philosopher@lemmy.world]

For me WFH has helped me have a community. The office was never a real community, and the fact that we all worked together got in the way of being actual friends. Instead with the added time from WFH I was able to prioritize my social life and go to more events and meet people I actually have stuff in common with. Additionally my in-office job forced me to live in a dead suburb, WFH allowed me to move to a city with a lot more social opportunities.

Of course probably not everyone prioritized that. The office might be good for some people, but for people like me who don't necessarily socialize at the office very easily WFH is much better for community.

[ibuthyr@lemmy.wtf]

Yes I do, speak for yourself.

[npcknapsack@lemmy.ca]

You mean, you, a presumably young man, don't come to the office to chat with your 50 year old office mom, or your CEOs and managers, or your coworkers whose interests only overlap yours so far as employment opportunities? How bizarre!

[npcknapsack@lemmy.ca]

It'd be married and single women, most likely. (Edit: they prefer to classify us by our relationships with men.)

[ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml]

I've been working from home with my older family members since COVID started and I've been pretty happy since it's always been my goal. I've also had a knee injury for the past 3 weeks, and it's potentially prevented me from making it worse, and allowed me to continue working. I've almost been working remotely for the majority of my career, which is kind of cool to think about. I like working from home, but I understand not everyone likes it.

Honestly, I'd probably sooner retire from tech and work something else if I was forced to go back into an office with no possibility of getting a remote job.

[leftzero@lemmynsfw.com]

sense of community between you and your coworkers, which is a very real and normal thing

No it fucking ain't.

Forcing people together doesn't create community, it creates stress, and resentment, and burnout, and migraines.

“Workplace community.”

Biggest oxymoron I've ever seen since military intelligence.

ALSO miss the sense of community with my coworkers which I used to get from lunches together, sharing the train ride home, or just working side by side at our desks

Oh, you're one of those fucking extroverts.

I can't begin to imagine the extent to which your poor coworkers must have despised you while you constantly bothered them while they tried to work, or have a quick decompressing lunch, or disconnect after a long day of work during the train ride home, the poor bastards. As if work wasn't bad enough by itself.

[zombifrancis@sh.itjust.works]

Why can't your workers be your workers, your family be your family, your friends be your friends?

[leftzero@lemmynsfw.com]

Well, just from reading that I can assure you your coworkers don't.

[leftzero@lemmynsfw.com]

Sounds horrible, glad I have no intention of bringing a child into this torturous world.

[barsoap@lemm.ee]

I guess it's a poor choice of words but there's definite value in workplace camaraderie. Don't let your jadedness fuel the bosses' union busting.

[leftzero@lemmynsfw.com]

So they ruin it for everyone else.

[leftzero@lemmynsfw.com]

Unions aren't community.

They're a necessary defence mechanism against capitalism.

[leftzero@lemmynsfw.com]

Not everyone hates life like you do

Work isn't life.

It's the opposite of life (no, death is just its absence).

hang out with co-workers all the time

Bonding over shared trauma and Stockholm syndrome is not a good basis for a relationship (though there's probably no relationship other than you pestering them while they try to work).