Meta is now a defense contractor
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What do people do there that is so harmful to their mental health? I just follow what relatives are up to and read the latest hobby/town gossip
google "facebook mental health" and you'll get an idea. if you're fine using it, that's great. but not everyone is like you. and the "i'm fine with this--everyone else should be too!" attitude is one thing i saw constantly on facebook.
edit: notice in my original comment i spoke of my own experience, not anyone else's, nor what anyone else should spend their time and attention on
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google "facebook mental health" and you'll get an idea. if you're fine using it, that's great. but not everyone is like you. and the "i'm fine with this--everyone else should be too!" attitude is one thing i saw constantly on facebook.
edit: notice in my original comment i spoke of my own experience, not anyone else's, nor what anyone else should spend their time and attention on
I was asking what everyone else is doing there, not saying everyone should be fine with it. Geez.
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pretty much that
I wonder if people have shittier relatives or live in a shittier town hah
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I was asking what everyone else is doing there, not saying everyone should be fine with it. Geez.
lol sorry, "i'm fine with this-- whatever you're doing must be wrong"
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pretty much that
Except my crazy relative (just 1, thank dog) also has telegram and feels the urge to forward every damn whackjob conspiracy theory reinterpretation of truth that they find to me and my wife, despite us never replying except to ask them to stop. eg. Cloud seeding, windmills and electric cars are responsible for destroying the atmosphere (not co2 and other greenhouse gases); Bill Gates etc. are spreading microchips through vaccinations; judges ruling that measles doesn't exist; Ukraine is full of nazis; and yes, even regurgitated feelgood fairy tales and random cat pictures from Facebook. So glad they are in a country far far away from me. They "do their own research", of course.
So bloody sad that so many people are in a similar situation of avoiding friends and family for their own sanity (and sometimes safety).
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What do people do there that is so harmful to their mental health? I just follow what relatives are up to and read the latest hobby/town gossip
Originally the criticism was that you see the highlights of other people's lives and then compare that to your everyday life and that's depressing.
Nowadays I think it's all the politics being injected everywhere. Me? I look for cars and car parts on groups. That's about it.
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lol sorry, "i'm fine with this-- whatever you're doing must be wrong"
It seems like you're trying to find a reason to be upset about my question tbh
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They failed making VR, so now they're a defense contractor for AR. Wonderful.
How have they failed? they have the best value for $ headset.
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It seems like you're trying to find a reason to be upset about my question tbh
my bad. i'm glad it works for you
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How have they failed? they have the best value for $ headset.
Metas failed game(s?) are legendary. Plus, you know, account requirements.
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No, but seriously. I see this said everywhere and I think most people take it as a sort of superstition, but, like... your entire thought patterns change once you give it up, it's like an engine being allowed to slow down after over-revving it incessantly. All these things do is waste our cognitive bandwidth. And, yes, I'm including any social network where "me" is the main focus.
it’s like an engine being allowed to slow down after over-revving it incessantly.
That's exactly what it feels like. I installed Social Fixer on my browser(s) to make FB at least usable for the few times I have to touch it for event coordination. People ask me what that's like and I simply say: "Oh, it's boring now. I only look at status updates for a few minutes and go do something else." The pull to go back is just... gone. It's as dull as LiveJournal ever was, and frankly, it's better this way.
What did I strip out of the feed? Everything that wasn't generated directly by someone on my friends list. That's all it took. All the "engagement" is either artificially injected into your feed, or clickbait people pass along because their feed isn't filtered.
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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.zip/post/39876981
Giving people the power to build community and bring the world closer together so we can shoot them
This interview with Palmer Luckey about the news is wild to listen to, if that’s your thing.
You don’t hear many openly conservative tech billionaires talking like he does.
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Except my crazy relative (just 1, thank dog) also has telegram and feels the urge to forward every damn whackjob conspiracy theory reinterpretation of truth that they find to me and my wife, despite us never replying except to ask them to stop. eg. Cloud seeding, windmills and electric cars are responsible for destroying the atmosphere (not co2 and other greenhouse gases); Bill Gates etc. are spreading microchips through vaccinations; judges ruling that measles doesn't exist; Ukraine is full of nazis; and yes, even regurgitated feelgood fairy tales and random cat pictures from Facebook. So glad they are in a country far far away from me. They "do their own research", of course.
So bloody sad that so many people are in a similar situation of avoiding friends and family for their own sanity (and sometimes safety).
that's only a small part of it. the bigger issue is that people are just generally assholes on the internet, even your not crazy relatives. so for me the less digital socialization the better. lemmy is the only social media i do now (not having a profit motive helps some), but i have dialed it back like 99% since peak reddit.
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This interview with Palmer Luckey about the news is wild to listen to, if that’s your thing.
You don’t hear many openly conservative tech billionaires talking like he does.
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What do people do there that is so harmful to their mental health? I just follow what relatives are up to and read the latest hobby/town gossip
I honestly don't know how I could use Facebook that way. Seriously. I log in once in a blue moon, and half the stuff I see scrolling through the main feed has nothing to do with any of my friends as far as I can tell. And that's with an ad blocker.
I don't understand how anybody can stand it. Maybe it's a "boiling frog" situation, or maybe they've developed better counter-strategies than I am familiar with? I quit Facebook about 10 years ago and when I poke my head in now, it's completely different. It is terrible in ways I wouldn't have believed 10 years ago.
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I honestly don't know how I could use Facebook that way. Seriously. I log in once in a blue moon, and half the stuff I see scrolling through the main feed has nothing to do with any of my friends as far as I can tell. And that's with an ad blocker.
I don't understand how anybody can stand it. Maybe it's a "boiling frog" situation, or maybe they've developed better counter-strategies than I am familiar with? I quit Facebook about 10 years ago and when I poke my head in now, it's completely different. It is terrible in ways I wouldn't have believed 10 years ago.
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I honestly don't know how I could use Facebook that way. Seriously. I log in once in a blue moon, and half the stuff I see scrolling through the main feed has nothing to do with any of my friends as far as I can tell. And that's with an ad blocker.
I don't understand how anybody can stand it. Maybe it's a "boiling frog" situation, or maybe they've developed better counter-strategies than I am familiar with? I quit Facebook about 10 years ago and when I poke my head in now, it's completely different. It is terrible in ways I wouldn't have believed 10 years ago.
[Welcome to the Fundamentals of Project Planning and Management Students course! The discussion forum is great for sharing ideas and clearing doubts. Joining the live Zoom meetings adds value by offering real-time interaction and deeper understanding of the course.
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I honestly don't know how I could use Facebook that way. Seriously. I log in once in a blue moon, and half the stuff I see scrolling through the main feed has nothing to do with any of my friends as far as I can tell. And that's with an ad blocker.
I don't understand how anybody can stand it. Maybe it's a "boiling frog" situation, or maybe they've developed better counter-strategies than I am familiar with? I quit Facebook about 10 years ago and when I poke my head in now, it's completely different. It is terrible in ways I wouldn't have believed 10 years ago.
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CLICK AND JOIN THE CLASS ](https://chat.whatsapp.com/Cn1MPEfP0T44YU9n1EWxZG
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Originally the criticism was that you see the highlights of other people's lives and then compare that to your everyday life and that's depressing.
Nowadays I think it's all the politics being injected everywhere. Me? I look for cars and car parts on groups. That's about it.
Literally all I see are ads, I guess you need friends for it to be addictive or something...
I really wish my city would get off its collective ass and stop using marketplace.
