The whole concept of sororities and fraternities is so weird to me

Harder to be reported for forcing your frat pledges/freshmen to do illegal things if you forbid recording it and posting it to social media.

This is a quandary for sorties and fraternities.

Those organizations are all about getting attention and selling an image, hard to sell and image if you can’t use the various content delivery platforms.

While frats and sororities don’t make much sense to me, there is no need for the members to be abused. They are just a bunch of kids. So, limiting social media is a probably a really good idea.

For the ones that have hazing rituals, pecking orders, and 80+ active members, yeah I agree with you.

I joined a small (~20 active members) STEM major fraternity and it was incredible. No one took it too seriously and it was just treated like a social club, which is all a fraternity is really supposed to be. It was a great way to quickly meet people with shared interests, which yeah, you don’t need a fraternity to do that, but it made things much easier for introverted, socially anxious me. Plus, STEM majors aren’t exactly the type to chat with people next to them before lecture

Similar experience for me! I joined the co-ed service "fraternity" Alpha Phi Omega... they coordinated many different volunteering efforts and projects; but also had some social events for the members. Great way to meet kind-hearted people!

Affordable housing.

Another perk for people that take on leadership positions is exposure to what is effectively running a small buisness under the worst possible circumstances.