Are a few people ruining the internet for the rest of us?
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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.bestiver.se/post/493495
Nah, "the rest of us" is ruining the internet by following the people in the top of the trash pit.
You know... nobody is stopping you from self hosting, building a website or digging a gopherhole?
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Absolutely agree. There's a minority of highly polarized people who encourage a false binary view of the world - where anyone who doesn't 100% agree with you is your enemy, and questioning even a subtle aspect of an opinion is an all-out attack. These people post so much they dominate forums and create the false appearance of trends. Most people aren't nearly that polarized.
I find in real life they are just as polarized but not as rude about it. Both left and right friends of mine.
However almost all of them get the hint to respectfully change the topic when there is an impasse. Online the badgering continues unabated.
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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.bestiver.se/post/493495
A "few" people? The problem is not a handful of loudmouths, but the masses hanging on their lips. An influencer is not influencing without a mass of followers.
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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.bestiver.se/post/493495
One of them being main stream media trying to stay relevant
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I find in real life they are just as polarized but not as rude about it. Both left and right friends of mine.
However almost all of them get the hint to respectfully change the topic when there is an impasse. Online the badgering continues unabated.
The main point is that these interactions happen much less often IRL than online, where the anger trolls post relentlessly. If they acted like that in person almost nobody would ever talk to them, but for some weird reason they get a lot of takers online.
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Nah, "the rest of us" is ruining the internet by following the people in the top of the trash pit.
You know... nobody is stopping you from self hosting, building a website or digging a gopherhole?
My friends set up a CMS by invite only (people we know IRL). Hundreds of us there and yet only a handful are active.
People want to be where the action is (more so than where the quality is). FOMO.
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My friends set up a CMS by invite only (people we know IRL). Hundreds of us there and yet only a handful are active.
People want to be where the action is (more so than where the quality is). FOMO.
Well, look at it the other way around:
Those niche places act like a filter, pretty much alike as the whole internet was about ~20 years ago. Yeah, there may be fewer people around, but those people tend to be quiet a bit more interesting.
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Independent of what anyone is actually saying, the mere fact that someone is commenting on social media at all makes it highly likely they’re one of the people the article is talking about. As the saying goes, a tiny number of users produce nearly all the content. Most people don’t post comments online. The average person doesn’t. So if someone does, that alone already marks them as unusual in some way.
This becomes especially obvious on Lemmy, where you can see people’s moderation history - and it takes only a few seconds to notice how many users are spouting mean, violent, and extremist views. You might not see those views as extreme because this is an echo chamber and you probably agree with them, but they’re extreme nonetheless when compared to what the average person would say.
Nobody ever thinks of themselves as the problem - we all have some story about how our behavior is justified and how those people over there are the real issue. Nah, you're probably part of the issue as well. I am too.
I think you've got a point. My initial thought was that because this platform is decentralized and there's no Elon or Zuck at the helm, this isn't applicable. But as you pointed out, the vast majority of users don't interact or post anything, so that naturally amplifies the users who do, particularly if they have an agenda to push.
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In a recent series of experiments, we paid people a few dollars to unfollow the most divisive political accounts on X. After a month, they reported feeling 23% less animosity towards other political groups. In fact, their experience was so positive that nearly half the people declined to refollow those hostile accounts after the study was over. And those who maintain their healthier newsfeed reported less animosity a full 11 months after the study.
Twitter got a lot better when I unfollowed the peeps whose tweets I hated. But it also got boring, so I stopped using it (this was loooong before Trump, Elon, etc).
There's probably a lesson there.
so we defederate from .ml and lemmy could be saved?
fascinating
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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.bestiver.se/post/493495
Good you don't deserve the internet anyway
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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.bestiver.se/post/493495
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