@julian done, thanks for looking at this!while I've got you on the line ... i'm still experimenting with Bridgy Fed and last night i had somewhat unexpected results (although maybe it's just that my expectation is wrong). CCing @snarfed.org and @quillmatiq as well ...There were three accounts involved:* jon@discussions.thenexus.today and jdp23.thenexus.today (on Bluesky) are following each other* thenexusofprivacy.net on Bluesky and jon@discussions.thenexus.today *aren't* following each other (but thenexusofprivacy.net *is* following ap.brid.gy, and bridges correctly in other situations)jon@discussions.thenexus.today posted https://discussions.thenexus.today/topic/28/testing-federation-from-nodebb-to-bluesky-again-... and it federated correctly. Yay! Here's the bridged equivalent: https://bsky.app/profile/jon.discussions.thenexus.today.ap.brid.gy/post/3lgwoj4vkgbd2jon@discussions.thenexus.today replied and it federated back. also yay!but when thenexusofprivacy.net replied, it *didn't* federate back. not so yay.Any idea what's going on?